Alright. I don't use the term 'bitch' to describe a person for his/her romantic behavior/preferences.
Thinking about it, I actually don't know why I use the word. Anyhow.
What I think of when using the term 'LA bitch' is the following:
- someone super into health
- not because it's actually good for your body and well being
- rather because it is cool
- they like to present themselves in public and get compliments about it
- ideally they have a Instagram account and like to post stupid inspirational quotes
(Don't get me wrong, I like emotionally helping quotes. Mark Twain and such were some freaking emotionally educated people.)
- rather the type of 'love is everything' in the romantic comedy style
There are yoga teachers and others who genuinely have similar behavior. People who live what they say. Their actions, honest openness for others, tolerance, not judgemental way of thinking and emotionally balance is authentic.
A LA bitch however is not emotionally balanced and does the behavior out of a mix of need for approval, being superficial, and gives too much of a damn what people think.
Just not values I appreciate and consider good traits in people. Absolutely the wrong motivation in life.
Edit: After rereading this post it seems like that I have some emotionally work to do myself. Why do I have a problem with such people. Even though they - not entirely - stand for what I honestly think is not cool, why is that triggering something in me? Maybe because of those people others perceive me like them. I would say I care but not too much to fulfill a specific checkbox for others. I don't mind having my own way and not agreeing with everyone. I just don't like to be perceived as stupidly naively (I think well used naiveness/opportunism/focusing on the positive than negative outcome) and low educated.